The following is an excerpt from Sexual Magnetism, our new guide to becoming wildly attractive to women. Sexual Magnetism, The WASM Dating Handbook and Secrets of Sensual Massage are all available for download now in our store!
It’s Friday night. You’re out having a few drinks and you see a beautiful woman sitting by herself at the bar. How would you feel about going over and starting up a conversation? Excited? Terrified? Would you enjoy the opportunity to meet her? Or are you pretty sure you’d crash and burn?
Here’s another scenario. You’ve been on a few dates with a sexy, intelligent pre-med student. You’ve both had fun and you’ve held hands but nothing sexual has happened yet. That evening you’re drinking wine back at her place, listening to music and talking. How do you get from talking on the couch to having sex on the couch?
Scenes like this play out millions of times every day throughout the world. Unfortunately, the vast majority of men don’t have the understanding or the skills to convert opportunities like these into dates or sex. The great news is that both the understanding and the skills can be learned by every man willing to study and practice. How is it possible that EVERY man could learn these skills? The answer is rooted in thousands of generations of human biology.
The Opposite Sex
The first thing we need to understand about male/female interaction is that, unlike what modern media is currently telling us, Men and Women are biologically very different. Men are primarily ruled by logic, women are primarily ruled by their emotions. Men want to do things, women want to feel things. Women love it when a man does something excellent they can celebrate. Men love when a woman praises and celebrates the things he has done. The two sides are wonderfully complimentary, like a lock-and-key.
The key for a man is to realize that in order to unlock attraction in a woman, he cannot behave like a woman. He must be masculine. To attract women, it is absolutely vital that we think like men, talk like men and act like men.
Be Interesting, Be Adventurous
Connor McGregor. Elon Musk. Joe Rogan. Vladimir Putin. Peter Dinklage. Tom Brady. Vin Diesel.
Mentioning any of these men in conversation immediately sparks intrigue. Everyone knows these guys. They’re doing things. Creating things. Changing things. Love them or hate them, you can’t deny that they’re fucking interesting.
If you want to attract a woman, you need to tap into her curiosity. The more cool things you have going on in your life, the more interesting you will be to women. It’s that simple.
Confidence Is King
Confidence is attractive. Confidence is exciting. Someone who knows who they are, what they want and where they’re going is universally interesting – especially to females. Women are hardwired to pay attention to non-verbal and para-verbal queues (more on that later.) If you genuinely believe in yourself, a woman will sense that and be naturally inclined to believe in you as well.
Use Masculine Body Language
Why does The Rock command every room he walks into? Is it because he has large muscles? Is it because he’s famous? Is it because he’s good looking? Well yes, those things don’t hurt, but the same is true for every other action star in Hollywood. So why is Dwayne Johnson the highest paid actor in the world? Arguably the single biggest reason is because he has learned to control his body to radiate a powerful yet comfortable presence.
Respect Her Desire To Talk To You…
Women desire attention from a high-quality individual more than anything else. This means talking with you is number one on her list of priorities. If you want to increase your success with her, stop whatever else you are doing and give her 100% of your mental energy. You’ll make her feel appreciated, the conversation will be more valuable to both of you, and afterwards you’ll be more effective at whatever you need to do on your own.
…and Demand Respect From Her
By the same token, you should never tolerate a woman who calls you last minute and flakes on your date – or worse, doesn’t show up at all. If she desires you, she won’t “forget” or have “something else come up.” Tell her point blank that her behavior is unacceptable and that if she doesn’t change it immediately you’re gone.
Be Ready To Walk At Any Moment
21st century women lack discipline. It’s a sad fact of our current world. Sure we could complain until we’re blue in the face about how modern women are manipulative, hypocritical bitches but the truth is it’s generally it’s not their fault. Appropriate boundaries are established in the home and most girls haven’t had great male figures in their lives to teach them respect, discipline and punishment.
If you have the strength to walk away anytime your woman mistreats you, you will always have the single most powerful tool in every interaction with women: Your self-respect.
Become Sexually Magnetic!
Our new book Sexual Magnetism was written with one goal in mind: To make sure you’re completely irresistible to women! The truth is that once he truly understands female sexual motivation, ANY MAN CAN HAVE AS MUCH SEX AS HE WANTS!
Are you in an LTR but she’s never DTF? If you’re not getting laid regularly, Chapter 13: Reigniting the Flame will teach you how to pass your woman’s “tests,” use conditional availability to generate sexual tension, and master the art of Dread Game. If your bedroom is colder than Antarctica, this chapter is guaranteed to heat things back up!
Are you working your ass off trying to make your woman happy but she still doesn’t want sex? You need to read Chapter 4: The Paradox of Purpose and the Pussy Pedestal to find out why a man can never EARN a woman’s sexual attraction – and the counterintuitive solution that will make you infinitely happier and turn her on like never before!
What is the fastest and best way to make sure SHE touches YOU? If you don’t already know this technique, Chapter 11: Teasing (It’s Getting Hot in Here) is going to blow your mind!
Do you want to start dating but you’re fat? Like really fat? Don’t worry, there are lots of big guys out there who are dating beautiful women! Chapter 6: Sexy and I Know It will show you why you don’t need to lose ANY weight to get laid – and what you DO need to work on instead.
Can a woman be sexually attracted to a man with so-so looks and almost no money? ABSOLUTELY!! Chapter 2: Why Are You So Attractive? will teach you exactly what women want and why their biology needs it – even if SHE can’t explain it!
How do you tell her about your other fuck-buddies? What’s the best way to break up with a girl? When should you lie to a woman? If you don’t know the answers then you definitely need to read Chapter 15: Ethical Magnetism. The more women you date, the more hearts you’re going to break. Make sure you do it the right way.
And this is JUST THE BEGINNING!
HOW WILL YOUR LIFE CHANGE AFTER READING SEXUAL MAGNETISM?
- Your dating success-rate will SKYROCKET
- Your wife/gf will start treating you like a WHOLE NEW MAN
- Your sex life will become better than you could have imagined!
- Your need to “please” women will DISAPPEAR
- You’ll build unshakable confidence
- You’ll find a new LIFE-PURPOSE for yourself that will change EVERYTHING
- You’ll discover the secret to become rejection-proof
- And SO MUCH MORE!!!
If you’re finally ready to get the sex life you’ve always wanted, if you’re finally ready to have spectacular relationships with women, if you’re finally ready to KNOW that you’re a BRILLIANT, SEXY BEAST, you need Sexual Magnetism!